Behind the Scenes at Isabel Bloom – Creating “Unconditional Love” for the 2013 DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament

February 13, 2013

Donna Young, the designer and co-owner of Isabel Bloom, has created another wonderful sculpture for this year’s DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament. It depicts a little girl hugging her puppy and is titled “Unconditional Love.” Donna and her team have the ability to create sculptures that touch the emotions, and this year she has done it again.

"Unconditional Love" goes on sale March 23rd, 2013 at Isabel Bloom's Moline Showroom.

“Unconditional Love” goes on sale March 23rd, 2013 at Isabel Bloom’s Moline Showroom.

In the Limited Edition version, the dog is wearing a purple collar. Only 200 Limited Edition sculptures are being created and they will go on sale Saturday, March 23, 2013 at the Isabel Bloom Signing Event at the company’s Moline Showroom at 1505 River Drive. The Signing Event runs from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. and Donna will sign each of the sculptures sold that day. Isabel Bloom is also donating 50% of the sculpture’s sale price to Family Resources domestic violence programs and services. It’s one of three activities held each year in conjunction with the DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament. DOVE stands for “Domestic Violence Ended” and also includes the golf tournament on  June 7th this year and Fill-the-Truck on June 22nd.

Have you ever seen an Isabel Bloom sculpture going through the production process? We produced a video showing the creation of “Unconditional Love” at Isabel Bloom’s Harborview Production Studio in Davenport. We are grateful to Donna and her talented crew.

I invite each person reading this to give “Unconditional Love” to someone you love on March 23rd.


Iowa Proposes Changes in Funding for Domestic Violence/Sexual Assault Services

October 10, 2012

Family Resources is working with social services agencies across a 14-county area in Eastern Iowa to plan for a change in the way the state funds domestic violence and sexual assault services.

After a decade of sustained losses, a federal funding cut of 14% this year has created a significant deficit in Iowa’s response to victims of violent crime. Combined with last year’s 10% cut in state funding, some sexual assault and domestic violence programs throughout Iowa are facing closure.

The Crime  Victim Assistance Division of the Iowa Attorney General’s Office includes regionalization of services that are funded. Iowa has been divided into six regions. Organizations in each region have been charged with the task of regional service plans based on a funding formula that will include four comprehensive service contracts for each region.

The service contracts include:

  • Shelter-based services
  • Domestic abuse comprehensive services
  • Sexual abuse comprehensive services
  • Culturally specific services

In short, there isn’t enough money to go around, so the Crime Victim Assistance Division believes we can continue to provide quality services to crime victims if changes are made in the way the services are delivered – through “cost-savings and efficiencies.”

In August, staff from the Division met with program directors from each region to discuss the proposal. Follow-up meetings in our region will continue through December. Family Resources is in the Southeast region, which stretches from Clinton to Keokuk and includes the Quad Cities, Muscatine and Burlington. To the West the region also includes Iowa City.

Our primary concern is the victim. We’re committed to developing a regional plan that meets the needs of people – primarily women and children – who need a safe place to escape violence or counseling and therapy to recover from violence and abuse. They have endured traumatic injuries – emotional and physical – and we don’t want to see them undergo further hardship.

Members of our staff are working with other organizations on a regular basis. The Crime Victim Assistance Division will be holding community meetings in our area soon to gather input from the public. You can check back here for details or through our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/FamRes.

We’ll keep you informed on community meeting times and locations and on further developments in the state’s plans.


Quarters Add Up at Summer Sizzler Auction by QC Moms in Business

July 17, 2012

Alyssa Jacob, a member of QC Moms in Business, holds up an item as members of the audience bid their quarters and hold up their numbers.

Our community is made up of wonderful people who do very generous things. Case in point: QC Moms in Business.

Last Friday, the American Legion hall on 15th Street in Moline was packed when the organization held its Summer Sizzler Quarter Auction to benefit Family Resources.

Here’s how it works: you buy a paddle with a number on it (you can buy as many as you want). As each item is brought up for auction, you put the number of quarters needed for the item into a basket – usually between one and three quarters, depending on the value of the item. Then you hold your paddle up and if your number is called, you win the item.

An amazing 74 gift baskets were up for bid, each donated by local businesses, including passes to the Family Museum (one quarter bid), a Jamberry Basket from Jamberry Nails (two quarters), an M&M Goodie Basket (one quarter), 1 and 2-quart Tupperware pitchers with Goodies (two quarters) and 70 more items and baskets donated by area businesses. The items ranged in value from $10 to more than $100.

QC Moms in Business was started by Michelle Praught, an Independent Scentsy Director, to give women who own businesses an opportunity for networking. Their activities have evolved into philanthropy.

The turnout was great for the Summer Sizzler Quarter Auction on July 13th. Proceeds will benefit Family Resources’ Domestic Violence programs.

The auction raised $2,092.80 for Family Resources. That’s a lot of quarters. The funds will be used to support our Violence Intervention Counseling Services, particularly our Domestic Violence programs.

Michelle says members of the group selected Family Resources because they wanted to give back to a family friendly organization that’s making a difference helping women and children.

I can’t tell you how much it means to us, and to the people who need our programs and services, when generous people like the members of QC Moms in Business do projects like this. They deserve the community’s support just as they support the community.


Donors & Volunteers Help Fill the Truck for Domestic Violence Shelters in the Quad Cities and Muscatine

June 29, 2012

We had a successful day last Saturday, June 23. Trucks donated by Lujack’s were parked at all Hy-Vee stores in the Quad Cities and Muscatine to gather donated items for our Domestic Violence Shelters in both communities.

This video shows highlights from the day, along with a salute to our amazing volunteers and sponsors.


Help Us Fill the Truck for Our Domestic Violence Shelters This Saturday, June 23

June 21, 2012

Some of our staff with DOVE committee members during last year’s Fill-the-Truck event.

An important event happens this Saturday. Trucks donated by Lujack’s will be at every Hy-Vee store in the Quad Cities and Muscatine collecting your donated items for survivors of domestic violence. Our shelters give women and their children a place to go to find safety and a new beginning.

We depend upon the community’s support. As you can imagine, it takes a lot of resources to help domestic violence survivors regain their balance and establish new lives. Many of them (primarily women and their children) arrive at our shelters with just the clothes they’re wearing.

Donated items may include the following:

  • Kitchen and Bath Items – Most needed: brooms, dust pans, utensils and paper products.
  • Cleaning Supplies – Most needed: cleaning wipes, disinfectant spray, floor cleaner and dish soaps.
  • Bed and Bath Linens – including blankets.
  • Baby & Toddler Supplies – NEW socks, underwear, onesies, children’s cold medicine, teething rings, bottles, pacifiers, bibs and bathing items, diapers (sizes 4, 5, and 6), wipes, lotions and powder.
  • Toiletries – hair care products (especially ethnic), deodorant, shampoo and lotion.
  • Small Home Items – trash cans, laundry baskets, alarm clocks, toasters, blenders, microwaves, can openers, coffee makers, dishes, pots and pans.
  • Over-the-Counter Medicine – antacids, acetaminophen, ibuprofen, cough syrup.
  • Monetary donations, gas cards and Hy-Vee gift cards.
  • Please – NO clothing or furniture.

When women and children come to our domestic violence shelters, they are escaping a dangerous situation. We’re fortunate to have a community that responds to our annual Fill-the-Truck event in a strong way.

Area businesses and organizations sponsor our event – Fill-the-Truck is the third and final activity related to the annual DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament. Employees from sponsors and other organizations volunteer at different locations to help load donations into the trucks. I’ll be at the Eastern Avenue/Kimberly Road Hy-Vee store on Saturday morning. If you bring your donated items to that store, please say hello.

Presenting sponsors of Fill-the-Truck include:

Media sponsors for the event include:

Wendy Navarro (right), our Domestic Violence Services Supervisor, on the set with Paula Sands during Paula Sands Live on KWQC-TV. We appreciate the support of local news media.

Yesterday, our Domestic Violence Services Supervisor Wendy Navarro appeared on Paula Sands Live on KWQC-TV6. Click this link to watch the segment online.

There are women and children right now in the Quad Cities and Muscatine area who are hurting and wondering where they can turn. They face a desperate situation, particularly when they don’t have the resources to live on their own. Because of our donors, Family Resources offers safety, support, and we coordinate community resources to build a life in which they no longer have to live in fear.


Family Resources DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament — A Fun Day for A Good Cause

June 4, 2012

Janelle Carter was one of the first to tee off at the 9 a.m. shotgun start. She is on the DOVE Committee and was in the foursome for Quad City Bank & Trust.

A total of 144 women from around the Quad Cities brought their clubs to Palmer Hills Golf Course last Friday for a good cause – to benefit our Quad Cities Domestic Violence Shelter.

It was a chilly and breezy morning for the 9 a.m. shotgun start, but it warmed a bit as the day went on. Laughter, applause, even a few screams of joy could be heard throughout the day. It was so great to see so many of our friends having fun. Even those who said they weren’t playing great golf still admitted they were having a great time.

After the tournament, we all met under the pavilion, where prizes were awarded, awards were presented, and a silent auction was held on a number of excellent gift baskets. Cody Tucker of B100 was the emcee of our luncheon ceremony.

Sharon Rundel shot a hole-in-one and won $10,000 toward a new car from Lujack’s Mitsubishi. The foursome included LeAnn Kerr, Carolyn Lund, Sharon Kundel and Kathy Biscontine.

We were preparing the pavilion for lunch when delighted cheers and screams came from Hole #3, a par 3, 180-yard hole where Sharon Kundel had just hit a hole-in-one to win our hole-in-one contest. Gwen Tombergs presented Sharon with a check for $10,000 toward a new car from Lujack’s Mitsubishi, one of our sponsors.

Another highlight was the presentation of the Jamie Pickett Memorial Award, given to Pat Shouse for someone who goes above and beyond, in the spirit of Jamie Pickett, who was involved in the DOVE Committee before she passed away in 2009. Pat was a co-creator of the tournament that became the DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament.

I’d like to thank all of our sponsors for supporting the tournament. Our Eagle sponsors included:

  • Trinity Regional Health System
  • Royal Neighbors of America
  • Hy-Vee
  • Edwards Creative
  • Isabel Bloom

Our media sponsors included:

  • WQAD
  • Cumulus Broadcasting
  • Quad-City Times

I’d like to also thank our hard-working DOVE Committee for organizing such a positive event. Committee members included:

  • Caitlin Russell
  • Abbey Furlong
  • Cathy Edwards
  • Becky Lorentzen
  • Cheryl Piersall
  • Collett Gillam
  • Dana Densberger
  • Deb Stephens
  • Janelle Carter
  • JoEllen Peace
  • Kerri Jernigan
  • Leann Zinn
  • Rachel Lawrence
  • Sarah Reemtsma
  • Rachel Klein
  • Rod Ossowski

Two other events are held each year in conjunction with the DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament to support our Domestic Violence Shelter – the Isabel Bloom Signing Event in March, where statues designed exclusively for Family Resources are signed by designer Donna Young – and the Fill-the-Truck event that is coming up on Saturday, June 23, when the people of the Quad Cities and Muscatine can take donations to fill trucks at all Hy-Vee stores in our communities (Muscatine donations go to our Domestic Violence Shelter in Muscatine). For details on Fill-the-Truck, follow this link.

Pat Shouse was the recipient of the Jamie Pickett Memorial Award. From left to right: Cheryl Goodwin, Pat Shouse, and Caitlin Russell, chair of the DOVE Committee.

To see photos from the DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament, follow this link to our website. We were putting photos on Facebook all day Friday, so if you’re on Facebook, make sure you “like” our page to keep up-to-date on all of our events.

The financial support that is generated will go a long way in helping women and children who are in desperate need of a new beginning. DOVE stands for “Domestic Violence Ended.” It would be nice to make that happen, but in the meantime, the people who organize and support events like these deserve our heartfelt thanks, and the businesses who sponsor our events deserve our community’s support.


Registration Still Open for DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament June 1

May 17, 2012

There are a few spots still available for golfers in the annual DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament, to be held on Friday, June 1, 2012 at the Palmer Hills Golf Club in Bettendorf.

The DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament is one of the major fundraising events of the year for Family Resources Domestic Violence Shelter and services. For hundreds of women and children each year, Family Resources is a place to turn as they seek safety and a new beginning.

Activities on June 1 include the golf tournament and a luncheon. Check-in begins at 7:30 a.m. and there is a shotgun start at 9:00 a.m.

For registration information, please contact Rachel Klein at (563) 468-2140 or email rklein@famres.org.

Sponsors of the DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament include the Quad-City Times, Trinity Regional Health System, Royal Neighbors of America, Hy-Vee, Isabel Bloom LLC, Edwards Creative, Cumulus Broadcasting, and WQAD.


Take Back the Night – A Domestic Abuse Survivor’s Inspirational Story

May 15, 2012

Our annual Take Back the Night event was held recently at Schwiebert Park on the banks of the Mississippi River in Rock Island. The purpose is to raise awareness that sexual abuse and other interpersonal violence is a crime. We want everyone to know that if they have been victimized, Family Resources is here to help you recover your life.

Our speaker at Take Back the Night was a woman named “Amy,” who moved the audience with the story of the emotional abuse she suffered in her marriage, and the sexual abuse her children suffered in secret until one fateful day on a drive to a county fair. It’s difficult to take that next step alone. This video shows highlights of Amy’s story and the evening.

 

 


How Trauma and Treatment Alter the Brain – An Important Issue for Healthcare and Social Work

May 11, 2012

by Megan Wilson, Child Counselor/Outreach Coordinator, Rape/Sexual Assault Counseling & Advocacy Program, Family Resources

David Lisak, Ph.D. was the featured presenter at our conference titled “The Neurobiology of Trauma & Healing: How Trauma and Treatment Alter the Brain.”

Trauma — both physical and psychological — is handled by the human mind and body in ways that can remain hidden for years. Research has shown that even infants who suffer trauma, such as abuse, can show behavioral or emotional issues later in life even if they don’t remember the event.

Trauma can be stored in the mind and body, and can erupt years later, triggered by a memory, a smell, or even a person’s name. This can trigger a “fight or flight” response. If trauma happened at a very early age, the person experiencing this reaction may not understand why it’s happening. Sometimes, the reaction may be as “mild” as headaches, neck or back pain, but it can also be expressed in panic attacks, anger, or violence.

On May 2nd, Family Resources co-sponsored a conference featuring David Lisak, Ph.D., a leading researcher in this field, specializing in the causes and consequences of interpersonal violence.

The room at the iWireless Center was packed with doctors, nurses, psychologists, counselors and social workers, educators, court representatives, and even the Arsenal (military) was represented. Each of these professions deal with people who have experienced trauma — either violence or other forms, including emotional violence.

Dr. Lisak’s presentation focused on what happens in the brain — how trauma is encoded and how it shows up later. For example, people who become murderers often have complicated pasts that include domestic violence when they were children. The public may think that this is a very bad person, but the story isn’t usually quite that simple. Most of them represent one more phase in a cycle of violence or neglect that may have begun with their parents — even their grandparents.

Dr. Lisak showed that in the developing brain of children, trauma can cause the brain to become hyper-sensitive and hyper-reactive to trauma cues, including the facial expressions of people around them. Children become extremely sensitive to expressions that they perceive as threatening, for example.

Trauma and neglect also has an impact on the frontal cortex of the brain, resulting in a weakened capacity for impulse control and possibly anger or violent behavior.

A study of men on death row shows a clear pattern of three family backgrounds:

  • Abuse and domestic violence
  • Alcohol and/or substance abuse
  • Chaos, instability or mental illness

This type of training conference is important in educating professionals to ask the right questions and learn to diagnose trauma so their clients can be treated.

It’s also important for people who have grown up in abusive households or those who have experienced abusive or violent relationships to talk to a counselor, psychologist, doctor, or any professional who can help you find treatment.

Family Resources co-sponsored the conference along with Illinois Health Cares, Trinity Regional Health System, and the Family Violence Coordinating Council.


Video – Dan Gable and the Impact of Domestic Violence

April 20, 2012

Iowa wrestling legend Dan Gable delivered the keynote address at the Family Resources New Beginnings event in Muscatine on Saturday, April 14, 2012. He discussed the tragedy of his sister Diane’s murder, the impact it had on his life, and the perspective it gave him on the importance of family. This video shows the highlights of his speech.


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