Quad-City Times Editorial Urges Community to Support Family Resources

January 29, 2013

QCTlogoNEWColorA week ago, the Quad-City Times ran a story on sexual assault kits that have not been investigated by the Davenport Police Department. In about 80 percent of the cases, the evidence sits for years without an investigation. The horror of the assault and the stigma of a criminal case, where the victim is made to feel violated again and again, causes a lot of victims to suffer in silence. Investigators can only do so much if the victim does not step forward.

We work with the Davenport Police Department, which does an amazing job investigating cases, and our staff work with victims to help them recover their dignity, self-esteem and their lives.

The editorial board at the Quad-City Times recognized this and made the decision to run an editorial, praising our work with the Davenport Police Department and urging the community to support us in our goal to provide a safe place for victims of sexual violence. The paper recognizes that the answer to the problem of sexual assault already exists in the QCA. Readers are encouraged to support these efforts with financial gifts.

We were surprised and grateful when the editorial appeared in the paper on January 28. We know that the people who make up the editorial board truly care about our community, and on behalf of everyone at Family Resources, I’d like to offer them a public “thank you.”

Read the Quad-City Times editorial via this link.


A Safe Place Through Time — An Historical Perspective of Family Resources

December 28, 2012
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Orphans line up for church in 1912 in front of the Iowa Soldiers’ Orphans’ Home, later to be renamed the Annie Wittenmyer Home. Photo courtesy of Augustana College Special Collections.

The year is 1912, Sunday morning and time for church. Young orphans are rounded up and lined up in front of what is now our Administration building.

It’s a moment frozen in time, and when you look at the picture 100 years later, you can almost hear the orphanage staff telling the kids to line up – stop talking – quit fidgeting.

Children whose families couldn’t care for them – or whose parents had died – were brought to the Iowa Soldiers’ Orphans’ Home and received care and education so they could live productive lives despite the trauma of being separated from their families.

At the time this photo was taken, the orphanage had around 570 boys and girls. It was overcrowded and was underfunded. Costs for children were split by the county and the state, but the care of soldiers’ orphans was the sole responsibility of the state. The Home was given $12 a month per child, but costs exceeded revenue by at least $400 per month.

Thousands of children had already passed through the Home by the time the 1912 photo was taken. Thousands more would pass through during the following 50 to 60 years.

In 1949, the legislature renamed the orphanage the Iowa Annie Wittenmyer Home to honor the woman from Keokuk who was primarily responsible for starting it.

I look at the old photo now and realize that everyone standing there has lived their lives and are now gone. I look at the young faces and wonder what happened to them? Are their grandchildren still alive? Did they live happy lives?

Over time, as foster home and adoption programs flourished, the Annie Wittenmyer Home stopped being an orphanage and became more focused on group care for children with special problems in adapting to the normal community.

Today, Family Resources provides many more services to families in our area, but we still serve as a place for young people to receive care, treatment, and education to help them learn to live productive and happy lives. We call our Davenport grounds the Wittenmyer Youth Campus in honor of Annie. We also have offices in Dubuque, Clinton, Muscatine, Burlington and Moline to offer services to families that range from mental health counseling and family restoration to rape/sexual assault programs and Domestic Violence shelters.

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Children and their mothers from our Domestic Violence Shelter stand in front of Family Resources in 2012. We still provide a safe place 100 years later.

A few months ago, in the same spot where the orphans lined up for church in 1912, two families from our DV shelter stood after visiting our Administration building. Although it is 100 years later and the children we serve are no longer orphans, they still need a safe place, and that’s what we offer. I look at the faces in the 2012 photo and want them to live happy lives free from fear. I’m happy to report that at least one of these families is in a safe home of their own now, the mom has a job and is preparing to go back to school.

If you have followed the news in 2012, we have some of the same problems with funding as we did 100 years ago. We have had to make painful adjustments this year so we can keep moving forward. It helps to have the support of a caring community and generous donors who understand the legacy of the past 160 years and who know there will always be children, women and families who need a safe place to regroup, recover, and get back on track to achieve happy, productive lives.

So I get a little reflective as a year comes to an end, but as I look at the faces in the photos from 1912 and 2012, it’s obvious that – like an Olympic flame – we pick up the torch from one generation and carry it to the next.

If the past is any indication, Family Resources will be here far into the future. None of us will be here when a photo is taken in 2112, but if we do our jobs right, families that need a safe place will still be able to come here to find it. I can’t imagine a better legacy to leave behind and to carry forward into 2013.


Generous Hearts and Baskets of Hope for Thanksgiving

November 21, 2012

We are lucky to receive community support all year long, but our hearts are especially touched by the kindness of our donors at this time of year.

Many of our clients look to us as a safe place to heal, to escape violence, to get their lives back on track. The holidays can be difficult when you don’t feel the happiness that everyone says you should be feeling.

Some of the staff members from Ascentra Credit Union who donated Thanksgiving dinners to our clients.

Staff members of Ascentra Credit Union throughout the QCA put baskets together and dropped them off today. Because of their generosity, around 40 residents of our Domestic Violence Shelter will sit down to a family-style dinner on Thanksgiving. In addition, the families of five of our Wittenmyer Learning Center students will also have a nice Thanksgiving dinner at home.

Royal Neighbors of America delivered “baskets of hope” a little over a week ago. The baskets were filled with items ranging from toys to toiletries. They made the holiday a little brighter for 13 women and 38 children in our DV Shelter and our Family Safety, Risk and Permanency Program, which works with families to keep them together.  

Staff from Royal Neighbors of America and Family Resources with baskets of hope that were delivered to our Davenport offices.

We’ve also received a couple of major grants and donations — $50,000 from the Hubbell-Waterman Foundation to match donations to our Annual Fund, and $34,800 from the Scott County Regional Authority to support building improvements for our Counseling and Therapy Services. Also — one donor who wants to remain anonymous has given us a $30,000 gift to our Annual Fund campaign, which is unrestricted and can be used for our core mission as needed.

It doesn’t take a large donation or grant to earn our gratitude. Large or small, every gift is appreciated and needed to help the children, women and families that come to us for safety.

We received a call today from a young man with a troubled past who was here on our Davenport campus and now is in college pursuing his dream of being a chef. I’ll have his story here on the blog very soon. He is just one person out of thousands whose lives have been turned around by the kindness of the people who support us, now and throughout the year.

If you would like to donate and change the life of someone in our community who needs your help, click here to go to our secure donation web page.

Happy Thanksgiving.


Iowa Proposes Changes in Funding for Domestic Violence/Sexual Assault Services

October 10, 2012

Family Resources is working with social services agencies across a 14-county area in Eastern Iowa to plan for a change in the way the state funds domestic violence and sexual assault services.

After a decade of sustained losses, a federal funding cut of 14% this year has created a significant deficit in Iowa’s response to victims of violent crime. Combined with last year’s 10% cut in state funding, some sexual assault and domestic violence programs throughout Iowa are facing closure.

The Crime  Victim Assistance Division of the Iowa Attorney General’s Office includes regionalization of services that are funded. Iowa has been divided into six regions. Organizations in each region have been charged with the task of regional service plans based on a funding formula that will include four comprehensive service contracts for each region.

The service contracts include:

  • Shelter-based services
  • Domestic abuse comprehensive services
  • Sexual abuse comprehensive services
  • Culturally specific services

In short, there isn’t enough money to go around, so the Crime Victim Assistance Division believes we can continue to provide quality services to crime victims if changes are made in the way the services are delivered – through “cost-savings and efficiencies.”

In August, staff from the Division met with program directors from each region to discuss the proposal. Follow-up meetings in our region will continue through December. Family Resources is in the Southeast region, which stretches from Clinton to Keokuk and includes the Quad Cities, Muscatine and Burlington. To the West the region also includes Iowa City.

Our primary concern is the victim. We’re committed to developing a regional plan that meets the needs of people – primarily women and children – who need a safe place to escape violence or counseling and therapy to recover from violence and abuse. They have endured traumatic injuries – emotional and physical – and we don’t want to see them undergo further hardship.

Members of our staff are working with other organizations on a regular basis. The Crime Victim Assistance Division will be holding community meetings in our area soon to gather input from the public. You can check back here for details or through our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/FamRes.

We’ll keep you informed on community meeting times and locations and on further developments in the state’s plans.


KWQC Meteorologists Erik Maitland and Kevin Phelps Head Over Heels for Family Resources

September 4, 2012

Meteorologist Kevin Phelps (left) and Chief Meteorologist Erik Maitland model high heels in support of our “Walk A Mile in Her Shoes” event coming up October 13.

Erik Maitland and Kevin Phelps look great in high heels.

We’ve always known that Erik has a great sense of humor and cares for the community, but when we asked him if he would pose in high heels to help promote our “Walk A Mile in Her Shoes,” he loved the idea and asked fellow meteorologist Kevin Phelps to join him. 

Size 12 was the largest shoe we could find, so we knew they would have to weather some pain, but after only a brief struggle, they got the shoes on and posed on the news set. Videographer Greg Armstrong shot video of Erik and Kevin trying to walk and it was shown at the end of the 10 O’Clock news on Wednesday night. 
Watch for a flyer soon – I’ll post a copy here on the blog. 

Erik Maitland in a pose you don’t often see on KWQC-TV6.

This “photo op” might be catching on. A local football coach has agreed to pose for us, and we’re working on more. So stay tuned to this blog and our Facebook page (link) for more photos in the next month or so.

Walk A Mile in Her Shoes is a men’s march to stop rape, sexual assault and gender violence. On the morning of October 13th, at Schwiebert Park in downtown Rock Island, men will put on women’s shoes and walk across the Centennial Bridge.
It’s a lot of fun for a good idea, and we hope to get a lot of guys out to walk. For more details, follow this link.
We all want to thank Erik and Kevin for having the compassion and the self-esteem to do this for the women of our community and for Family Resources.
 

Volunteers Bring Generous Hearts and Painting Skills to Family Resources on Day of Caring 2012

August 30, 2012

Volunteers from Group O gather in the morning in front of our gym before being sent to their painting assignments on the Day of Caring.

Sixty-five volunteers from Deere & Co. and Group O came to our Wittenmyer Youth Campus in Davenport yesterday as part of the United Way of the Quad Cities Day of Caring 2012.

 
The annual event is sponsored by United Way of the Quad Cities Area, coordinating volunteers from around the community and assigning them to important community projects for a day. Family Resources is grateful to be selected again as a volunteer site.
 
They began arriving around 9:00 in the morning and at 9:30 we welcomed everyone and sent them in groups to different buildings that needed some fresh coats of paint.
 
Some of our buildings are very old and heavily used. A fresh coat of paint makes a big difference in offices where people come for mental health counseling and services, or in residential halls where young people live as they receive care, education and treatment for a variety of behavioral issues. It makes the atmosphere more pleasant and gives everyone a boost.
 
As they worked, volunteers were singing, laughing, and enjoying themselves. The Day of Caring gets them out of the office and into the community – it’s a great way of bonding as teammates and coming together in a setting outside of the office.
 

Brittany Oakes is videotaped by Greg Armstrong of KWQC as she works with other volunteers from Deere & Co. to paint in our Leslie residential building.

One of the Deere & Co. volunteers, Randall McMurray, says it gives everyone a good feeling to give back to the community.

 
Nonprofit organizations like ours depend on people with caring hearts – we couldn’t do what we do without volunteers. I went from group to group yesterday, talking with volunteers and thanking them for giving their time, energy and talent so our staff could focus on what they do best.
 
We have estimated that throughout a typical year, volunteers provide more than $200,000 worth of work to Family Resources. Yesterday — in one day — volunteers provided service that we estimate to be worth more than $7,500. At a time when we stretch every penny, it’s not easy to come up with the words that express how much we appreciate this type of generosity.

Taking a Difficult Step for the Good of the Mission

July 31, 2012

It has been a difficult couple of weeks for our organization. For several years, the state has reimbursed us for our 24-hour care programs at a rate that does not cover the costs of care for children who come to us through court order.

Most of these children have experienced serious trauma in their lives including various types of abuse, neglect, and other emotional issues. The courts send them to us to salvage their lives,  and to give them the care, treatment and education they need while they are here, with the goal of putting them on track for a happy and more balanced life.

Reaching the children now pays huge dividends for our society in the future.

Everyone in our organization cares for these children very much. They are not bad kids, they have experienced trauma that many of us can’t imagine. As a result, they can behave destructively toward themselves, others, and property. It takes a lot of resources and a variety of dedicated staff to provide for their needs.

It also costs nearly $140 per day for each child – for housing, food, hygiene, utilities, therapy, counseling, education, and more. During the current fiscal year, the state of Iowa is reimbursing Family Resources $98.97 per day.

Last year, we averaged 77 children per day in our 24-hour care programs. That’s a shortfall of more than $3,000 per day. Multiply that by 365 days, and it’s more than $1.1 million.

For years, we’ve tried to manage this through various cost-savings – hiring freezes, equipment that isn’t purchased, benefit cuts for staff and cost-reduction strategies.

We’ve done it for the children, but the situation has reached a point where we need to take a more difficult step.

By October first, we will transition approximately 35 children out of our 24-hour care programs, and will work with the courts and the Iowa Department of Human Services to find new placements for them.

Unfortunately, this also means a reduction in direct care and support staff – approximately 45 full-time employees and an undetermined number of part-time employees.

Last week, we met with supervisors and staff to discuss the situation with them. Even in the face of losing jobs, our staff reacted the way we would expect.

They are concerned for the children.

For years, we’ve been working with legislators and the Department of Human Services to raise the reimbursement rate. To date, we have not been successful.

Even as we transition 35 children from the programs and reduce our staff levels, there will still be around 50 children daily in our 24-hour care programs. We are making adjustments in our employee benefits and doing some restructuring throughout the organization to manage the continued cost issues. And we’ll continue to work with the state of Iowa to resolve the situation.

This has hit all of us hard. We care about the children, and we consider staff to be members of our family. In the past week, we’ve shared information about these important issues with our staff and stakeholders such as partner organizations, donors, and the community.

In the meantime, we continue to help clients on a variety of issues – domestic violence, behavioral and emotional health, sexual assault, alternative education, family restoration and more. We continue to be supported by generous donors in the community, and we will again serve around 35,000 women, children and men throughout Eastern Iowa and the Illinois Quad Cities this year.

Throughout our 160-year history, many changes have taken place. Times change, economies change, and a community’s needs change. As an organization, we adapt to changes with an eye toward the good of the community and the achievement of our mission – to strengthen children, individuals and families through quality programs that engage community resources and achieve positive solutions.

During the past week, we haven’t publicized some of the good things that keep happening about the work we do and the people we serve. We’ve been preoccupied. As we work through this difficult situation during the next couple of months, we will continue to share positive stories and other important information as we have been doing on these pages, on Facebook, and in our internal communications. They are stories that need to be told.

We appreciate the community’s concern and support, but more than our organization, it’s the children, women and families who need our support the most.


Quarters Add Up at Summer Sizzler Auction by QC Moms in Business

July 17, 2012

Alyssa Jacob, a member of QC Moms in Business, holds up an item as members of the audience bid their quarters and hold up their numbers.

Our community is made up of wonderful people who do very generous things. Case in point: QC Moms in Business.

Last Friday, the American Legion hall on 15th Street in Moline was packed when the organization held its Summer Sizzler Quarter Auction to benefit Family Resources.

Here’s how it works: you buy a paddle with a number on it (you can buy as many as you want). As each item is brought up for auction, you put the number of quarters needed for the item into a basket – usually between one and three quarters, depending on the value of the item. Then you hold your paddle up and if your number is called, you win the item.

An amazing 74 gift baskets were up for bid, each donated by local businesses, including passes to the Family Museum (one quarter bid), a Jamberry Basket from Jamberry Nails (two quarters), an M&M Goodie Basket (one quarter), 1 and 2-quart Tupperware pitchers with Goodies (two quarters) and 70 more items and baskets donated by area businesses. The items ranged in value from $10 to more than $100.

QC Moms in Business was started by Michelle Praught, an Independent Scentsy Director, to give women who own businesses an opportunity for networking. Their activities have evolved into philanthropy.

The turnout was great for the Summer Sizzler Quarter Auction on July 13th. Proceeds will benefit Family Resources’ Domestic Violence programs.

The auction raised $2,092.80 for Family Resources. That’s a lot of quarters. The funds will be used to support our Violence Intervention Counseling Services, particularly our Domestic Violence programs.

Michelle says members of the group selected Family Resources because they wanted to give back to a family friendly organization that’s making a difference helping women and children.

I can’t tell you how much it means to us, and to the people who need our programs and services, when generous people like the members of QC Moms in Business do projects like this. They deserve the community’s support just as they support the community.


Auction by QC Moms in Business to Benefit Family Resources

July 10, 2012

The gift baskets at the auction in July, 2011. Photo courtesy of QC Moms in Business.

An auction by QC Moms in Business will be held this Friday, July 13 at 6:00 p.m. at the American Legion in Moline (1623 15th Street).

Proceeds will benefit Family Resources, particularly our Domestic Violence programs. The auction includes gift baskets from donors and businesses around the Quad Cities area.

The auctions are growing very popular and we appreciate the support.

QC Moms in Business was organized by Michelle Praught to help women business owners network with others. The group has 45 members.

Here is a link to an article from the Dispatch/Argus that will give you more information on the organization and the auction.


Donors & Volunteers Help Fill the Truck for Domestic Violence Shelters in the Quad Cities and Muscatine

June 29, 2012

We had a successful day last Saturday, June 23. Trucks donated by Lujack’s were parked at all Hy-Vee stores in the Quad Cities and Muscatine to gather donated items for our Domestic Violence Shelters in both communities.

This video shows highlights from the day, along with a salute to our amazing volunteers and sponsors.


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