The Gift of Giving — Necker’s Jewelers Presents Gift to Family Resources

May 31, 2012

D.J. Necker presents Cheryl Goodwin with a check from their “Gift of Giving” campaign.

I attended a check presentation this afternoon where Dave and D.J. Necker of Necker’s Jewelers presented Family Resources with a check for $1,350.

The company has a charitable program called the “Gift of Giving” in conjunction with their advertising on WQAD-TV. In May, just before Mother’s Day, Necker’s Jewelers devoted a percentage of their sales to raise funds for Family Resources. WQAD ran a news feature on our organization, and Necker’s devoted some of its ad time to the promotion.

Each month, the company selects a different nonprofit in the area to receive a portion of sales. We were the second nonprofit selected. It’s a wonderful program at a time when nonprofits are stretching their resources to the limit.

The gift will go into our annual fund and will be used to provide programs and services that fulfill our mission — to strengthen children, families and individuals by providing quality services that engage community resources to create effective solutions.

Necker’s Jewelers has a history that goes back to 1893, when their first store opened in Dewitt. With the Gift of Giving program, the company shows the care they have for the people of our community.


Ribbon-Cutting and Public Open House Scheduled for Our Historic Gymnasium

May 29, 2012

Artist’s Rendering

Final touches are being made on the historic gymnasium on the grounds of our Wittenmyer Youth Campus. The building was crumbling when we launched a $1.1 million fundraising campaign.

Many generous people and businesses came through to help us save and restore the building for the young people who are part of our residential and school programs.

A ribbon-cutting will be held for invited guests on Friday, June 8. The following day, Saturday, June 9, a public open house in the gymnasium will be held from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m.

This has been an exciting project and the building will serve many purposes for the children and families that we serve, and for community groups who may want to use the building for other purposes.

The Quad-City Times ran a nice story on the front page today. Follow this link to read the article.


Star Award Recognizes High-Performing Family Resources Staff

May 18, 2012

The recipients of the Family Resources Star Award for 2012. From left to right: Alan Vrombaut, Kelley Yohe, Susan Earp, and Tara Burhans.

Every nonprofit is dependent on dedicated staff and volunteers. Family Resources has both, and this week we recognized some of our star employees with the presentation of the Star Awards.

A total of 56 high-performing staff were nominated in four categories focused on four values: Safety, Resourcefulness, Service, and Teamwork.

We held a reception at River Music Experience and called the top five nominees in each category to the stage. The recipient of the Star Award in each of the categories was announced and their supervisor offered comments about that person’s accomplishments in their job.

Here is a list of the top five nominees in each category:

Safety — Alan Vrombaut (award recipient), Beth Hawkinson, Georgina Hicks, Jay Jamison, and Luanne Sisk (Robinson) Newcomb.

Service — Kelley Yohe (award recipient), Christine Gray, Megan Wilson, James Woods, and Kristi Lawrence.

Resourcefulness — Susan Earp (award recipient), Sal Cracco, Michelle Kelly-Beechum, Dave Thompson, and Kim Huffstutler.

Teamwork — Tara Burhans (award recipient), Marcus Cavanagh, Mark Kutmas, Stephanie Kieffer, Tara Burhans, and Mindy Foltz.

You may read a lot in the news and online about our programs and services. But it’s the people that make up our hard-working staff that enable us to deliver our services to the people who need them.

It isn’t always easy. In fact, when you’re counseling or working with people who have experienced extreme trauma in their lives, it can be very stressful.

Thank you — to all of our staff, and congratulations to those who were nominated for the Star Award.  A special thanks to the anonymous donor who contributed financially to make this formal recognition program a reality.


Registration Still Open for DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament June 1

May 17, 2012

There are a few spots still available for golfers in the annual DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament, to be held on Friday, June 1, 2012 at the Palmer Hills Golf Club in Bettendorf.

The DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament is one of the major fundraising events of the year for Family Resources Domestic Violence Shelter and services. For hundreds of women and children each year, Family Resources is a place to turn as they seek safety and a new beginning.

Activities on June 1 include the golf tournament and a luncheon. Check-in begins at 7:30 a.m. and there is a shotgun start at 9:00 a.m.

For registration information, please contact Rachel Klein at (563) 468-2140 or email rklein@famres.org.

Sponsors of the DOVE Women’s Golf Tournament include the Quad-City Times, Trinity Regional Health System, Royal Neighbors of America, Hy-Vee, Isabel Bloom LLC, Edwards Creative, Cumulus Broadcasting, and WQAD.


Take Back the Night – A Domestic Abuse Survivor’s Inspirational Story

May 15, 2012

Our annual Take Back the Night event was held recently at Schwiebert Park on the banks of the Mississippi River in Rock Island. The purpose is to raise awareness that sexual abuse and other interpersonal violence is a crime. We want everyone to know that if they have been victimized, Family Resources is here to help you recover your life.

Our speaker at Take Back the Night was a woman named “Amy,” who moved the audience with the story of the emotional abuse she suffered in her marriage, and the sexual abuse her children suffered in secret until one fateful day on a drive to a county fair. It’s difficult to take that next step alone. This video shows highlights of Amy’s story and the evening.

 

 


How Trauma and Treatment Alter the Brain – An Important Issue for Healthcare and Social Work

May 11, 2012

by Megan Wilson, Child Counselor/Outreach Coordinator, Rape/Sexual Assault Counseling & Advocacy Program, Family Resources

David Lisak, Ph.D. was the featured presenter at our conference titled “The Neurobiology of Trauma & Healing: How Trauma and Treatment Alter the Brain.”

Trauma — both physical and psychological — is handled by the human mind and body in ways that can remain hidden for years. Research has shown that even infants who suffer trauma, such as abuse, can show behavioral or emotional issues later in life even if they don’t remember the event.

Trauma can be stored in the mind and body, and can erupt years later, triggered by a memory, a smell, or even a person’s name. This can trigger a “fight or flight” response. If trauma happened at a very early age, the person experiencing this reaction may not understand why it’s happening. Sometimes, the reaction may be as “mild” as headaches, neck or back pain, but it can also be expressed in panic attacks, anger, or violence.

On May 2nd, Family Resources co-sponsored a conference featuring David Lisak, Ph.D., a leading researcher in this field, specializing in the causes and consequences of interpersonal violence.

The room at the iWireless Center was packed with doctors, nurses, psychologists, counselors and social workers, educators, court representatives, and even the Arsenal (military) was represented. Each of these professions deal with people who have experienced trauma — either violence or other forms, including emotional violence.

Dr. Lisak’s presentation focused on what happens in the brain — how trauma is encoded and how it shows up later. For example, people who become murderers often have complicated pasts that include domestic violence when they were children. The public may think that this is a very bad person, but the story isn’t usually quite that simple. Most of them represent one more phase in a cycle of violence or neglect that may have begun with their parents — even their grandparents.

Dr. Lisak showed that in the developing brain of children, trauma can cause the brain to become hyper-sensitive and hyper-reactive to trauma cues, including the facial expressions of people around them. Children become extremely sensitive to expressions that they perceive as threatening, for example.

Trauma and neglect also has an impact on the frontal cortex of the brain, resulting in a weakened capacity for impulse control and possibly anger or violent behavior.

A study of men on death row shows a clear pattern of three family backgrounds:

  • Abuse and domestic violence
  • Alcohol and/or substance abuse
  • Chaos, instability or mental illness

This type of training conference is important in educating professionals to ask the right questions and learn to diagnose trauma so their clients can be treated.

It’s also important for people who have grown up in abusive households or those who have experienced abusive or violent relationships to talk to a counselor, psychologist, doctor, or any professional who can help you find treatment.

Family Resources co-sponsored the conference along with Illinois Health Cares, Trinity Regional Health System, and the Family Violence Coordinating Council.


Necker’s Jewelers Supports Family Resources with “Gift of Giving”

May 8, 2012

by Mary Macumber Schmidt, Vice President, Family Resources

With Mother’s Day coming up this weekend, Necker’s Jewelers in the Quad Cities is giving a portion of sales to Family Resources.

It’s part of a new program called “Gift of Giving.” Each month, Necker’s focuses on a local nonprofit organization in their advertising on WQAD, and for part of the month, gives a portion of sales to that organization. This month, they selected Family Resources.

A portion of sales until May 13th will help support our programs and services.

Here’s a video feature by Jason Fechner that was broadcast on WQAD.

We certainly appreciate this type of support from an outstanding local business.


An Important Issue for Our Community – Psychological Trauma in Children

May 7, 2012

by Christine Gradert, Senior Vice President, Family Resources

Some of the leading experts in the nation on psychological trauma were in the Quad Cities last week for two days of sessions on an issue that has an impact on all of us.

Dr. Robert Macy was one of the experts who presented at the Midwest Regional Psychological Trauma Conference on May 1st and 2nd.

They say children are resilient and bounce back from hardships. But abuse, neglect, witnessing violence or being on the receiving end of violence can have a deep impact that affects all of us unless it is recognized and treated.

Children experience Post Traumatic Stress Disorder – or symptoms of it – when they suffer violence or abuse particularly from a trusted caregiver such as a parent. This combination of violence and betrayal has an impact in the body and brain, and can cause a child to spiral downward. Later, as they enter a school situation or try to mix with other children or adults, the impact of the stress on their bodies and minds comes out in a variety of negative behavior.

Family Resources partnered with the Midwest Trauma Services Network and the International Trauma Center to host the 2nd Annual Midwest Regional Psychological Trauma Conference on May 1st and 2nd at the Quad Cities Waterfront Convention Center. Also on May 2nd, a conference was held at the iWireless Center in Moline on The Neurobiology of the Brain: How Trauma and Treatment Alter the Brain.

The conferences were attended by physicians, nurses, counselors, social workers, Family Resources staff, educators, representatives of the courts, and others who work with individuals who have suffered psychological trauma.

If untreated, these children have a greater tendency than other children to develop negative behaviors, including:

  • ·         Involvement in crime at earlier ages
  • ·         Friends that are delinquent
  • ·         School problems and truancy
  • ·         Substance abuse earlier and more severely

All of this costs the community, the state, and the nation.

Dr. Robert Kinscherff showed the impact of psychological trauma on young people, who grow up and become involved in the juvenile justice system in greater numbers than children who don’t experience trauma.

One of our speakers, Dr. Robert Kinscherff says, “If we do not effectively intervene when mental disorders and/or substance abuse disorders are emerging in youth, a cohort of adults will persist and worsen into adulthood and can be found overrepresented in the adult criminal justice system and the child welfare and protection system.”

Another expert, Dr. Robert Macy says that so many children are growing up disconnected from society because of the psychological pain inflicted on them, he fears that our freedom could be at stake if we fail as a nation to diagnose and treat these children.

We sometimes think that these are “bad kids.” But that’s because we don’t know the fear, pain, and rejection they’ve experienced because of violence and neglect. Even if we fail or refuse to recognize this, it costs us. And if fewer and fewer state and federal funds are earmarked for treatment and residential programs, we will all pay a price in the future.

The young people who come to our residential and educational programs usually have experienced psychological trauma. A month ago, nearly 50 members of our staff spent two days with Dr. Robert Macy and Frank Grijalva – two of the experts at last week’s Midwest Regional Psychological Trauma Conference – to further develop their skills in recognizing and treating children who have suffered trauma. We expect other training sessions in the coming months and years.

This is an issue that we at Family Resources consider as a priority.


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